ia hanya pakaian biasa...

Iyup...

Aku masih teringat detik waktu itu...
Waktu di mana aku masih kekurangan ilmu...
Dan Dia menyedarkan ku,
betapa sedikitnya pengetahuanku,
betapa banyaknya khilafku,
dan betapa hambanya aku pada Mu...


Cerita ni dah lama... tapi masih terkesan di hati...

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That day.... It was a very fine day...
I was asked by a friend of mine...
a female....
to give something which was hers...
then i met her, and give it to her...
she thanked me, and before i went away,
i said to her, sub-conciously, which i never did to anyone before....
something like....
'waah.. lawa deh pakai.. nak ke mane ni?'
then, she make a face that i couldn't understand yet at that time...
and there's no answer from her at all...

after i went away,
five minutes after that, she texted me...
and guess what?
the point from her text was,
'If you really mean what you've said, then this dress that can attract men's eyes, I dont want to wear it again... coz i'm afraid of 'those' eyes'

I was shocked...ashamed....speechless....
I couldnt say a word, and dunno how to reply...
I realized of my fault...
how trivial things are BIG things in the others eyes, especially the other gender..
i apologize to her... and i'll be careful with what i'm going to say next time,
not just her, but to others as well..
though i'm not perfect, i may make the stupid mistakes again and again,
but i'll be aware insyaAllah...

In this world, there're only a few person that I put my RESPECT on (maybe because I only knew a few)
and she's one of them..
yes..
she's one of them...

"Dan ingatlah kamu, manusia itu tidak ada yang dalam keuntungan, melainkan mereka yang tegur-menegur dengan kebenaran, dan juga kesabaran..."

pic creditted to: Nayzak

Aku cuba fikir sejenak... 

yang menasihati

dan yang dinasihati

tiada apa-apa

yang merugikan langsung...

directive itu bagus,

tapi

kadang-kadang

berkias itu perlu,

tapi jangan sampai mesej nye tidak sampai kepada pihak lain...

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thank you...

kerana memperingatkan...

dan menyedarkan aku,

yang serba kurang dalam memperingati orang,

dan menasihati orang...

seriously, 

aku tak pandai susun-susun ayat...

aku tak pandai berkata-kata...

dan aku juga tak pandai dalam banyak hal...

tapi aku akan belajar...

insyaAllah...

maaf atas ke-tidak hikmah-an cara ku dalam menegur